Until recent years, the vast majority of resources given to developing leaders within the local church have been given primarily for men in ministry. This isn’t an opinion piece where I argue for a woman’s place in leadership…you can google that subject and read enough arguments to last ten lifetimes. This is an article to Pastors and Elders who are working hard to truly embody being complimentarian by pursuing and equipping women to lead. To those pastors I would say that if you invested in ministry coaching for the women in leadership at your church, the return would be ten-fold.

Here are four reasons why you should consider ministry coaching for these women:

  1. A ministry coach can help a woman in church leadership discover her life purpose. Many believers, in general, do not know their life purpose and as a result, they walk through life chasing things that God never intended them to chase. A wise person will spend their time (and dare I say blood, sweat and tears) seeking God’s purpose for them. Once God reveals his overall purpose to any leader, they no longer have to guess what things get their “yes” and what things get their “no”. They will be free from distraction and able to jump in your church with 100% commitment. My own journey in seeking God’s purpose for my life was finally contained in one statement: “My life exists to exalt the person and work of Jesus Christ with integrity and excellence; to care for the local church, as the Bride of Christ, through leadership and discipleship; to tell the story of Jesus through the arts and depend on God to accomplish dreams that are bigger than me.” I never second guess that my purpose is to serve the local church and I am free from all other obligations.
  2. A ministry coach can help a woman in church leadership be successful in priority management. The first calling of a woman is that of being a wife and mom but God also calls some women into ministry. I’ve seen women shrink back from leadership positions in the church because they thought they had to choose one calling over the other. I am living proof that it is possible to do both well. The best thing a lead pastor or elder board can do for their female leaders is to provide a ministry coach to help them keep their priorities in order.
  3. A ministry coach will help a woman in church leadership grow in her personal leadership development. Personal leadership development for women is really no different than it is for men however it does have it’s own nuances. For example, how should a woman lead men who serve within her teams?  How can a woman resolve conflict without allowing her emotions to take control? A female ministry coach has walked these same roads and knows how to help other women walk them as well.
  4. A ministry coach will help women in church leadership learn how to develop others. This does not come naturally or easily to women. Our default mode is to do a task ourselves. Women who are called both to the home and to leading in ministry must develop people under their leadership to get the work done without the “crash and burn”. A coach will help them learn how to spot, recruit and train leaders.
  5. A ministry coach will help women in church leadership pull out vision for their ministry areas and learn how to make that vision a reality.  You want your female leaders to have vision for your church. Most of them have creative minds that make them an idea factory. A coach will help them determine what vision pieces fit within the overall mission and vision of the church and what steps need to be taken to bring the vision to fruition.
  6. A ministry coach provides a safe environment in which a woman in church leadership can be transparent.  As a woman, it is a humble privilege to be a leader in the local church…but it is also very challenging. There aren’t many women serving in upper levels of leadership and sometimes it can feel isolating. They aren’t elders. They aren’t Pastor’s Wives. They aren’t Lay people. Often it feels there is no one to talk to who actually understands the uniqueness of the position. A coach will encourage these women to pour out their raw thoughts and feelings and then help them to distinguish truth from lies which will result in her operating in the power of who she is in Jesus and absorbing her God-given identity.

I’ve previously written about how my personal coach is in valuable to me. We are in year two of our coaching relationship and this still proves to be true. The demands of home life and ministry can be overwhelming. I am thankful that God has given me a Pastor who sought out a coach to help train and cheer me on! The women in your church leadership positions would no doubt feel the same. If you are interested in learning how you can take the first step in having your female church leaders coached, please complete this form and I will be glad to speak with you!

Related articles:
Women In Ministry, by Tim Bice
The Church Needs More Deborahs, by JD Greear
The Complimentarian Woman: Permitted or Pursued, by Jen Wilkin

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